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Dancing through life

Lis and Poul-Erik Mathiasen’s love story began on the dance floor of a restaurant in Denmark, and they’ve been inseparable ever since. Today, as they navigate the challenges of Poul-Erik’s rare cancer diagnosis, they continue to draw strength from their love—and the unwavering support of their community.

The Mathiasen’s moved to Australia in 1971, but their adventurous spirit took them all around the world, including 4.5 years in the remote Aboriginal community of Tjukurla in the Gibson Desert, Western Australia. There, Poul-Erik worked as a social worker, while Lis was a school principal.

“It was one of the highlights of our lives. It was a privilege to be accepted by the community and learn about their unique culture. There was so much love there,” said Lis.

Four years ago, Poul-Erik was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer that affects only 3 percent of the population, turning their world upside down. Yet, the Mathiasen’s continued to embrace life with gratitude.

“We have family love, we have friend love, but most importantly we have our love. We have mountains of friends who have knocked our door down to assist us and love us in every way they possibly could,” said Lis.

Determined to keep living life to the fullest, Lis and Poul-Erik continued their ballet classes at the WA Ballet Academy, even after Poul-Erik’s first surgery. When he feared he might never dance again, their ballet teacher offered private lessons and specially designed exercises to help him regain his balance and posture.

“He had stars in his eyes,” Lis said.

Over the past four years, the couple has travelled across the Nullarbor twice, visited Denmark during the pandemic, attended annual opera events with family, and played bridge twice a week. Poul-Erik even fulfilled his dream of writing their memoir, Three Years, Two Danes, One Holden: A Memoir of Artless Travel, celebrating its release with a joyful backyard book launch attended by 70 friends.

Throughout this time, Juniper Home Care has been a crucial part of their support system, helping them manage the daily challenges of Poul-Erik’s diagnosis. The Juniper team has provided everything from domestic assistance to physiotherapy and respite care.

“The support has been amazing. The fact that I don’t have to do anything domestic has taken a massive burden off my shoulders and gives me more time with Poul-Erik. Juniper staff take the time to take an interest in you, and they make you feel like you are the only person they are looking after,” said Lis.

“We’ve received so much love from everyone at Juniper. The people are the best part—their warmth and goodwill make my day. We’re so lucky to have such beautiful friends and the incredible support of Juniper.”

As they continue to face the challenges of Poul-Erik’s terminal illness, Lis and Poul-Erik stress the importance of connection, acceptance, and love.

“We’ve accepted what we can’t change and focus on what we can control. Love makes the world go round, and connecting with others is what truly matters. We need to build bridges, not walls.”

For Lis and Poul-Erik, their hope is that their story will inspire others to hold on to what truly matters and live each day with love and gratitude.

“If we can help even one person live the last part of their life positively, we want to share our story. Life is too precious not to be lived with love.”